Category Archives: Musings and Rants

June 2010 post: Say No to Married Men

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This post was password protected before, just to share it now after  3 years has passed.

Why is this world so sick? The increasing moral decay of sex scandal, affairs, infidelity increased tremendously in recent years, spouse cheating stories has become so common to the extend somebody close to us suffer from broken marriage, due to third party involvement spread around friends, relatives and families.

There are problems in every marriage, I don’t deny it but then why a problem in a marriage have to end up with affairs? Even recently, a  friend asked me a question ‘ What do you call this relationship: a girl who is not the wife, not a girl friend, not a soul mate but in between all that?

My answer: Point blank . I told her ..  ‘Nothing’ .. coz she denied she is soul mate to the Married Men and she denied she is the girl friend. She is nothing and holds no position in the heart of the Married Men. She told me that they are very good friend that share their feelings about their life issue, loneliness, sadness whatever.

Seriously, Married men who has intention towards her ain’t going to be best of friends, something must be cooking in between.. it needs time for things to happen. That’s all I can say.

In fact I am alarmed at my friend action, and I am alarmed that after my earlier warnings to her to stay away from the Married Men that she continue seeing him, while convincing me nothing will ever happen.

Her acceptance and claiming to be of sharing moments ‘talking heart’ with the Married men really make me imagining slapping her face, to be honest. I mean she knew that Married men has intention of going further.. she denied it.. because she is lonely. .. and need some attention. But come on, are all men dead? If they are, what attention is she seeking?

Her response is that the Married Men has marriage problem and need someone to talk to. Hah! Why must he talk to you? He should go back and talk to his wife. She think it is okay for her to hang out with the Married Men and listen to his marriage problem.. what about the wife? Isn’t it so private? What would the wife think? What kind of help she intend to give the Married Men? Oh.. this is the beginning of more to come.. I can tell, because she is protecting the Married men in our conversation. She is getting deeper into something. Maybe she already has but did not tell me I didn’t know.

By the way, how does she verify that the Married Men does have a real marriage problem and not creating stories to get her attention and sympathy? She wouldn’t know and it is stupid to be listening and believing him in the first place. What does this Married Men want? The Married men is obviously setting a trap, trying to befriend and get her sympathy and then what?  There is no free lunch mind her. I knew she obviously know what she is doing, and I find her cruel. .. for her act. She is selfish and in the beginning of  hurting those innocent ppl, the family of the Married Men.

Whatever the men tell, no matter it is true or not, it is not her responsibility to help him, he have to go back to his wife, talk, and reconcile and repair his marriage. If he is not doing that, but complains to you, he is actually holding a passport that doesn’t exist to cheat and have affair. A passport that shout he has broken marriage and its okay for him to cheat.

Please wake up my dear friend, I really hope you listen to me and do not choose this path. There are more fun to  life than just seeing a life with a man that cannot offer you anything but sorrow.

Stay away from Married Men please! Love yourself and Have Dignity so you can hold your chin up without regrets.

 

Checked Checked Checked

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Can you believe it? I only had ONE Resolution in year 2011?

 

Resolution 2011:

do-not-kill-the-plant    They’re Not Dead. Just Malnutrition. Cacat bit bit. But CHECKED!!

Now its time for 2012 Resolutions

  1. Stay  Y o u n g  a t  H e a r t
  2. To have  h e a l t h y  w e l l b e i n g
  3. To Have  l a s t i n g m a r r i a g e -lifetime
  4. Keep my  h a i r  l o n g
  5. Keep my  b a n g s
  6. Continue D o n a t i o n s  of  C l o t h e s
  7. Loose  w  e  i   g  h  t
  8. Collect more T a x i uncle numbers, so I can get a cab easily
  9. No more buying D e s i g n e r   B a g s
  10. Get a D S L R
  11. Have A D r e a m H o m e
  12. To be able to w e a r   m y   W e d d i n g   R i n g
  13. Get an I p a d
  14. To have e x t r a member
  15. Have a Collection of Lonely Planet T r a v e l   B o o k s ( no more overseas holiday)
  16. To  w i n  lotteries
  17. To earn more $ $ $
  18. To   n o t   k i l l  innocent plants -u g l y plants can die
  19. To reduce p i l l o w s   and b o l s t e r s   on our bed
  20. To  F r i e n d   F i n d e r  my husband terang terang – never  try yet

Thats enough la, 20 over items to achieve. I’ll look at this resolutions page again one year from now. fml

I cut my hair again

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I am so angry at myself.

This time summo cut so short.It was horrible when my hair at neckline shoulder length in between and it started to look messy . I look dull, old and I started to part my hair in the middle for a change. Still my biggest enemy that trigger  me to go for a cut was the hot weather. I couldn’t stand it!!

I want to grow long hair geh mah, gone crazy fanatic one day and there I chop off my hair again without much consideration. Its so hard to grow long hairs, I imagine for years to have long hairs. There’s so much I can do to my hair, like curl it, straighten it, tie a bun, wear hair accessories and many more. I suppose it also cost higher to maintain long hairs.

Hubby did not protest or stop me from cutting my hair. He would raise his both hands or even his legs to support my decision because he said I look ugly with longer hair. fml

I am freaking angry now. Maybe its hormonal imbalance watever. I am angry! I want to grow long hairs as soon as possible. Nope hair extension or wearing wig is not an option for me!

Whatsapp this photo to hubby and he said I hidung besar. He is a Moron!

8 MAY 2011

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This year’s Mother’s Day falls on 8th of May and we went for Dim Sum  lunch with the family. I made reservation in advance as I am pretty sure everywhere is pack and I doesnt want to be standing in the long line to queue for a table. Most importantly its Mother’s Day and I want my parents to be comfortable when dining-out minus the stand and wait period. All this need proper arrangement also when you have old people, pregnant women, children and husbands that are impatient maybe.

We went for the Best Dim Sum in town  by Grand Imperial Restaurant at Hartamas Shopping Centre. Dont believe it? Come and try it yourself. Everyone was  pleased and satisfied with the quality of dim sum served here and they enjoy it very much. Even my little niece Aurora  happily finish the big bowl of fish porridge without my BIL or my Sister screaming at her. (what a blessing as I am really concerned of possible  public humiliation with the normal shouting at my mama’s home)

This restaurant was recommended by my SIL and we have been here ever since I guess 2-3 years ago. This is a place where we will not be dissapointed when we want to have fresh and delicious  Prawn Dumpling ‘Har Kau’ , Porridge, ‘Siew Mai’  ‘Char Siew Pao’ Roasted Pork, Pan Fried Turnip Cake, Hong Kong Chee Cheong Fun, Fried Noodles.. the list is endless.

Some may think dining in this restaurant was rather expensive, but I would say it is well worth the money spend. I personally thinks the price is pretty reasonable.

 

 Photos with my parents, we seated at Table 32!!  Wah nice number…

OMFG I got muka tembam!! Cannot see my eyes dy..

I also received a text wishes from my niece Jess Lynn wishing me ‘Happy Mother’s Day’ later in the evening. Seriously?!! But Thank You I’d love that. What a lovely day right?!!

I had a wonderful DAY  until at night when all hells let loose after a stray kitten got into the house when Hubby brought the garbage out as usual.

The Little  white fluffy hair MF kitten with the dolly  round eyes, deceiving harmless look, never would I thought it could be so vicious! Hubby and I have tried our ways to get the kitten out of the house, but all attempts failed and my Hubby refused to call the guard to help! Talk about MCP!!!! At last I decided to catch the kitten with my bare hand.

Foolish me!!! 

I didn’t think properly how to handle the kitten which leads to the freaking God Damn Stupid thing to bit me!!

Awesome!!!! It happen when the kitten  was struggling  to get loose and  I on the other hand was terrified and having to protect the ceramic memorabilias by the side of the cabinet (which is collecting thick dust) I panicked! Everything happen so fast and next thing I knew I got bitten.  What did my Hubby did? He was just standing by the side of the door looking and told me he is allergic to cat! WTF

Finally I got the guard to come over to catch the kitten. By then the kitten has became aggressive, angry and started to make hissing sound. I got scared and  jump   climb on the chair standing. (I thought I should  jump but I dont think the IKEA chair can withstand the weight).

See! Have to clean up the mess and wipe the floor..

Went to the clinic to get the antibiotics Jab, antibiotics meds, and dressing to clean the wound. Not a big wound but it is painful and got swollen a bit.

What a day to remember eh!! I think all this happen because Hubby and I wish Jess Shynn Happy Birthday a lil bit Late.. haha Balasan!

TO JESS SHYNN!!!

A belated wish

HAVE A WONDERFUL BIRTHDAY!!

Courtesy visit goes blank

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 What happened:

Operator inform the guest arrive

Me:  Hi Lynette

L:  Hi Cheryl

usher her to the visitor room and both sat down

Me: [Looking at her]

Lynette: [Looking at me]

Me: [ thinking in my head: 'WTF she looking at me? Speak Up]

Me: How are you?

L: I am Fine, how bout you?

Me: I am Fine Thank you [ WTF you want me to ask you first how you are?]

L: [still looking at me not starting conversation]

Me: Oh have you contact the PIC for the conference? [In my head: What are u doing bitch!!]

L: Oh I tried but he was busy

Me: Oh I see

L: Just to let you know we have refurbished the rooms

Me: Ok [ In my Head: Where's the brochure?]

L: [Looking at me and not striking conversation]

Me: Thanks for visiting, I’ll show you out

L: Oh Thank you, see you again.

Speechless!!

What kind of courtesy visit is this?

The customer have to ask and talk to her instead of the sales person. OMG!

While she’s not saying anything? I look at her and saw she got some eye infection. I guess it must be from the contact lenses she’s wearing. She also draw the eyeliner, one eye big another smaller.

I have no idea why she need to come over,  no promotion material handout, no topic to discuss about.. to show me she’s got red eye?

Waste my Time! Eventhough I am bloody free, still!! fhl

Pray for Japan! Please Help

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I am still following very closely like every minute I will refresh the page of the Google Crisis Response on the recent Japan Earthquake.

Google 

If my employer stumble on my blog about me following the news closely, what I can say is I cared for your country, especially JAPAN. Is that alright to continue and do it openly? Still I did my job and my role in the office is not compromise with the time I spend online searching for updates and communicating with my Japanese ex-bosses who have now all of them finally responded and confirmed they are safe, unhurt but really scared.

Just right at this time while  I am writing this post, I got this email from my colleaque and I found him really insensitive to what I’ve been going through.

He is asking money from me!

Goddamnit!

When I saw the email and thought I can scream at him only I found out he has gone back home.

Good Timing wtf!

So I replied him in very unfriendly manner, eventhough I did really owe him money from my last Friday shopping at Isetan Sale. Yea yea don’t judge me. I am sad and I do need some therapy to ease my pain over the disaster. Can anyone please understand? Its all about the emotions I am going through!

I am really in no mood but worried of the possible Radiations that will affect millions of ppl in this country and also neighbouring country. Pray hard for Japanese Government to be able to control and stop the crisis, whatever it is to bring everyone back to their normal life.

Please pray for Japan!

ALSO PLEASE DO YOUR PART: PLEASE HELP PLEASE DONATE!!

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Forget the Language Condition

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In this conversation, I only understand 20% of what’s written by guessing most of it FML!

 

If any of you recalls, in 2010 I attended 2 semesters of Japanese Language and since drop out of school class because I have finally diagnosed the real problem of myself not being able to comprehend the language.

My diagnostic findings was I have a Forget the Language Condition  which attacks when once I step out of classroom, I’d peed out all I’ve learned at the toilet. Even a refresher memory course while on the way for dinner with the fellow classmates aka The ’Gila’ Mui, Jor Sau Feng and Mean Queen couldn’t help! Fuck the Language!

Still I need to again learn the language before going to Japan.. aiyo