Just back forward a bit .. last  Tuesday which was a Public Holiday, a Wesak Day but I am working as usual because I have a different working calendar altogether which sucks at times but great when we have whole week off during the big celebrations like Hari Raya and Chinese New Year. I thought of applying annual leave but changed my mind when Hubby told me that its great that I work, so he’ll have more time for himself.  So off  I went to work and Hubby had a Me Alone Time.

I guess my working calendar works for Hubby just beautifully, while giving each other space. Its the coolest things to offer in a marriage. It is also  freaking damn cool  especially when you know he is at home washing the toilets. ( Yey!! Yey!! Yey!! He is the one who washes the toilet everytime Thank God!)

Meanwhile, our Marriage confidence has gone up a level too. Our conversation with each other are not just straight forward and direct, but effective and sometimes blatant. Even when we have a heated conversation, Bad tone, we manage to pull it off with laughing while crossing a field of landmines. Its our way  of getting to know each other as we  speak our minds. Its an art and its crazy but we pull it off beautifully most of the time.

I think for many couples they paint their marriage to be Picture Perfect but ours, we paint it with Fun, Loving and Lunatic.